Knock You Down

Why is that women naturally feel they have to submit to make a relationship work? A relationship is a union, not a dictatorship. So often us women lose who we are because of men wanting whoever they want when they want them. If a guy can have Sally, Sam, and Sara; I should be able to have Mark, David, and John, right? Why must women be committed and men don't have to be? This is not an equal relationship and I am not any man's property. They talk about the angry black woman who is mad for no reason. First of all, it's not just the Black woman who are mad. Secondly, she is not mad for no reason. She has trusted men and friends over and over again, only to be let down. Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me. That was a saying my friend would say in regards to relationships. She meant learn from your mistakes the first time around. We live and we learn. If he did it once he will do it again. So if this is true, there should be no wonder why a woman would become angry. She trust someone new too many times and now she believes that all men are the same. Men get offended, but what can we do? Actually the better question is, what can men do to keep the trust of women? One suggestion I have is to stop making it okay to be a womanizer in our American society. It's pathetic but it's what men and women learn is okay. Obviously, I have been hurt myself one too many times but I'm not holding a grudge anymore. I just want to help other women move on from the terrible cycle of eventually being angry at everyone not just men. Any type of negativity is not good for anyone. No one I know wants to be around an angry person. So fellas, if you have some advice give it. I really want to hear your opinions.